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Im the avoidant

None of this is anything but normal common sense interactions between people.

Omg, countless lightbulb-moments.💡You have an amazing way of explaining yourself, well done! 👌🏽

How to show a woman your worth?

That’s me

what if, they are mesmerized by your face as they spot you on a bus station, while you're not paying that much attention them. And as you sit down on the bus, while they too get on it, they start staring deep into your eyes for the whole duration you take the bus ride for? Let's say the bus ride is between 3 and 10 minutes long and you're both staring each other deeply. Almost in each others souls, so to speak. Do they like you or are they just being nice? This person, being a stranger, who you meet for the first time? Nothing too specific, just a general situation that happens to a lot of people, teehee

I ask for a job place as a favour lol 🤣🤣.idk but it worked

Me checking if I've feelings for him

You are 2-20% more attractive to others than you think

I think the harder part is when you get invited to do something and when you ask for further details, they hesitate because they didn’t think you’d take them seriously. After that, you just can’t trust them anymore. So to be safe, you just laugh off all of their invites.

What women need to understand is men who disrespect you, disrespect themselves and have low self-esteem. In turn, we tend to attract aspect of ourselves we need to work on. Learn the lesson and move on.

Hes too feminine Yikes

Good answer. To be honest I don't want friends and I know that I hurt people sometimes but I definitely don't want to hurt them. I just have had enough of people and friendships take up my time and friendships are all about compromise. I really truly like some people I meet in life and I can admire them or their skills or thoughts but I simply don't want to invest in friendships anymore. So I'm polite and sincere but I never look to further the encounter. So as this video says don't take it personally and enjoy the moment you have and then move on.

Great advice! all of this is true, can relate to this 100%. I'm always the one intiating - with both sexes, always speak first, ask them out. they never initiate - most dont text or say yes to me. So i just give up, i mean how long can you keep knocking on closed doors, i just learn to never ever initiate anymore

Damn this comfirms he has a crush on me. He did everything that you mentioned

Leo

Sounds like parenting.

I am very thankful of this video. It made me clarify that I have a crush on my crush

I used obssese over toys when I was a kid, i kind of always knew it in the back of my head, never done anything to stop it. But it was good and bad at the same time, i would watch a million videos of barbies and dollhouses that I wanted and then I would fantasize about having them , I thought that if I had them all of my sadness would go away, i was feeling "in love" with the toys but also hurting because my oarents wouldn't buy them. Eventually my mother gave my a really expensive doll house but I got bored of it and by that time I let go of being obsessed over those things and kind of felt embarrassed for liking it sm. Now I am obsessed with a person and it feels so similiar to how I felt when I was a kid, idk what to do

Welppp we were doing our morning prayer at school and suddenly everyone looked at me and some guys even smiled at me, LIKE AM I TOO UGLY SO THEY STARTED SMILING TO HIDE THEIR LAUGHING OR AM I TOO PRETTY

Can someone give me tecniques (like clear instructions) on how to detach from people, like daily exercises to work on that?

Self love is the most basic thing in life

I think this might work with people who are unsure of themselves,have childhood traumas,no boundaries or low self worth

3/5 is that good enough???

7: waiting for them to come out and say that they like you

Couldn't agree with the gender fluidity thing.

Exactly what happened. I asked a guy I see regularly that wanted to talk about something and he said he was busy and then from the next day started avoiding me completely. And before this we used to talk and maybe I misunderstood his friendship for interest.

Kids usually look and stare at me, even infants. Do they find me pretty or funny 😂

There are people that I like and love. But I am incapable of maintaining friendships over the long term. It's me, not them. So while yes, you can move on, don't make the mistake in assuming they don't like you because of this.

Nobody cares... Only simps still hunt for crap like women...

What if he avoids looking at me?

He is not attractive at all

I know for sure that what i need in my life at the moment is growth and not stupid reckless love

I confirm the last advice is pretty useful

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I guess I have a lot of trauma 🥺

This has been huge for me the last month or so. It's helped me alot with my triggers. Identifying the why and how's.

V shaped ahh head

Reading these comments, you can see how the negative characterisation of men by women is exactly the same as the negative characterisation of women by men. It's no wonder there's a loneliness epidemic.

So if a bloke contacts you after you go quiet, it's only for his own ends, if he doesn't he just didn't care, I suppose. I can't help thinking this sounds less like psychology than self justification.

amazing video, thanks

He has an arrogant look. That's attractive because it has confidence. But his femininity will detract women who want an actual man who is masculine.

Feminine women are attracted to masculine men. The kind of women who tend to be attracted to feminine men aren't the ones that possess the qualities that are attractive normal men.

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Your reactions are cute. You married franci ?

Haaa

Thanks

This advice is psychotic. Fucking evil.

When you know you know

Love your videos Francesca!!!